It’s Okay to Rest: The Reset You Didn’t Plan for (But Needed)

By: Steffanie Monae" March 27, 2026March 28, 2026 UncategorizedFeatured, health, life, love, mental-health, writingLeave a Comment

There are days when everything feels off. You sit down, ready to work. You have the plan. You have the vision. But your mind? It’s not cooperating. And instead of giving yourself grace… you start feeling guilty. This week, I had one of those days. As a work-from-home mom building a business from scratch, I…

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Trusting the Process when life disrupts your plans

By: Steffanie Monae" March 17, 2026March 20, 2026 Uncategorizedfaith, Featured, god, jesus, life, motherhood1 Comment

Some weeks flow exactly how we planned. The routines are steady. The to-do list gets checked off. The house feels calm. Your mind feels clear. And then there are weeks like the one I just had. I’ve mentioned before that I’m a creature of habit. I like routine. Structure helps calm my mind and center…

It’s Okay to Enjoy the Ride

By: Steffanie Monae" March 6, 2026March 26, 2026 UncategorizedFeatured1 Comment

Holding Hope for Tomorrow and Gratitude for Today There was a version of me who believed everything had to be a lesson. Every moment needed meaning. Every experience needed growth. Every season had to prove something. But lately, I’ve been learning something softer. It’s okay to just live. It’s okay to enjoy. It’s okay to…

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Love Is Patient With the Version of Me I Used to Be

By: Steffanie Monae" February 27, 2026 Uncategorizedfaith, Featured, life, love, mental-health, writingLeave a Comment

There was a version of me who felt like she was always behind. Behind in life. Behind in dreams. Behind in who I thought I was supposed to be by now. Becoming a mother at a young age forced me to grow up quickly, but it also slowed parts of my life that I didn’t…

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Hey, and welcome to my blog! My name is Steffanie Monae. I’m from the San Francisco bay area and an SFSU alumni with a BS degree in Fashion Merchandising and Marketing. I have over 15 Years of fashion styling experience and currently work as a freelance stylist, content creator, and the owner of Jayla Kids.…

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How to Style a Slip Dress This Spring: The Timeless Closet Staple That Never Leaves

By: Steffanie Monae" April 24, 2026

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Some trends come and go. Others quietly return year after year, stronger, smarter, and more refined each time. The slip dress is one of those rare pieces. Minimal, feminine, effortless, and endlessly versatile, the slip dress has proven it isn’t just a passing trend. It has become a true wardrobe staple that works across seasons,…

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Note to Self: DON’T LET DOUBT MOVE IN

By: Steffanie Monae" February 20, 2026March 17, 2026

Uncategorizedfaith, life, mental-health, personal-growth, writingLeave a Comment

There are seasons where you feel loud and unstoppable. And then there are seasons where you’re building quietly. Praying quietly. Hoping quietly. This week feels like one of those seasons. I’ve been pushing “One of One. The Only One.” But today, I want to pause and pour into us. Because sometimes the message we preach…

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Love Is Patient: Even When the World Tells You to Go Faster

By: Steffanie Monae" February 13, 2026March 17, 2026

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Last week, I talked about my four intentional hours, how I structure my day, how I protect my time, and how being patient with myself has become non-negotiable in this season. In that reflection on loving ourselves patiently — especially when growth feels slow or unseen, I was focused on grace. But this week, I…

Love Is Patient, Especially With Yourself

By: Steffanie Monae" February 6, 2026February 27, 2026

Uncategorizedlife, mental-health, mindfulness, writing2 Comments

We’ve all heard it before. “We all get the same 24 hours in a day.” It sounds motivating until you really sit with it. Because the truth is, not all 24 hours are created equal. And not every season of life gives you the same kind of time. Right now, in this season, I don’t…

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Staying the Course When It’s Quiet

By: Steffanie Monae" January 30, 2026February 27, 2026

Uncategorizedlife, love, mental-health, mindfulness, personal-growth1 Comment

There’s something no one really prepares you for when you decide to go after the life, business, or calling you’ve been dreaming about. The quiet. Not the peaceful kind, the kind where momentum slows, motivation wavers, and the excitement you felt at the beginning starts to feel… distant. The kind where you’re still showing up,…

VIBE: Run Your Race at Your Pace (And Don’t Let the Noise Name You)

There’s a difference between being busy and being aligned. Many of us are doing “all the right things,” but still feel stuck because our focus is split. We’re building while watching what everyone else is doing. We’re praying, planning, posting, creating… but also comparing. And comparison has a way of making you second-guess what God…

How Jayla Became More Than a Boutique

By: Steffanie Monae" January 16, 2026March 17, 2026

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Jayla didn’t start as what it is today Originally, it was supposed to be a women’s boutique, fashion-forward, cute, curated pieces. The kind of place where you come to find something that makes you feel confident and put together. But life happened, and it didn’t get off the ground the way I hoped. But God…

Week 41.22

By: Steffanie Monae" January 12, 2026January 16, 2026

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Note to Self: Become Who You Were Created to Be

By: Steffanie Monae" January 10, 2026January 30, 2026

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Somewhere along the way, many of us learned to rush the process. We learned to measure success by speed. By productivity. By how much we could carry without dropping anything. And while growth does require movement, it was never meant to come at the cost of alignment. This season isn’t about doing more. It’s about…

A Morning Routine to Start Your Week with Intention

By: Steffanie Monae" January 2, 2026January 23, 2026

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Every morning is a blank canvas. How you start it sets the tone for the rest of your day. Taking even a few intentional minutes for yourself can make a big difference. Here’s a morning routine that keeps me grounded, energized, and focused, no matter what the day holds. Before the chaos begins, I take…